Since I got inspired by the year-end thank you’s I wrote last year (click! click! this please), I now look back once again on how this year has been good to me. I may have had dark moments but over-all the good surpasses (as it always does) whatever bad I have experienced this year.
My 2008 has been very eventful. If I were to describe it in one word, the first thing that comes to mind is MANIC–simply because the significant things that happened to me this year has either been ecstactically joyful or painfully sad (walang tulak-kabigin, lahat heavy-gat!). I looked back on my 2008 this morning, I shed a few tears because every event, both good and bad, beautifully happened for a reason, each one teaching a valuable lesson.
As I start my 2009 today, let just say my thank yous to 2008:
Thank you for (finally) bringing my husband home to me.
Thank you for the gift of a good marriage that is values-centered and has enormous faith in God.
Thank you for all the big and small milestones we achieved and for things falling into place. I’m grateful for every plan, every goal that has materialized.
Thank you for challenges I have faced. Each one difficult and at times painful, but has given me a tremendous lesson: that the world does not always revolve around me and that even if I was going thru hardships, I’m still (and will always be) capable of helping others.
Thank you for the blessing of special people in my life. My husband, parents, inlaws, relatives, friends. Each one of them has touched my life in so many ways.
Thank you for the gift of friendship. This year, there were several hellos and goodbyes with people. To the ones who said “Hello”, know that I’m blessed to have met you. To the ones who said “Goodbye”, thank you for being a part of my life–I will leave my door open incase you want to say “Hello” again.
Thank you for the gift of change and transitions. Sometimes nerve-wracking but always bringing out the best in me. It is thru these that I am able to discover strengths I never knew I was capable of.
Thank you for the gift of travel. With each place explored, I know more and I share more.
Thank you for the gift of photography and writing. Two things I love doing because I am able to show God’s wonderful creations and share information that may be able to help other people.
Thank you for a stable and not-so-hectic career. There are days when work was so demanding but it was always worth it because work also gave me back days-off that I could enjoy and a flexible time so I’m able accomplish my personal goals. I will always be grateful that the career I have now gives me more time to be a Wifey than a careerwoman.
Thank you for the gift of good advices. In times when confused and looking for answers, it was thru words of wisdom shared by people around me that has made a difference.
Thank you for the value of fear. Some people may not see it as a good value, but this year, I have learned that it is if you put it into good use. Fear was one of those values that gave me courage to make a big change in my life.
Thank you for the gift of safety and good health.
Thank you for all the memories, big and small. They made me who I am today and has made me cherish every moment that I’m alive.
As I say goodbye to 2008, I feel that with all the things I’ve gone thru, I say hello to 2009 a bigger and better person (the same feeling I have whenever a year has gone by).
Happy New Year everyone! May your 2009 be kinder, happier and always full of love.


Highlights of my 2008:
January. My very own DSLR. Our 1st Wedding Anniversary. My 31st birthday. “Say it with Photographs” website is born.
February. Little Lenten Sacrifice. Chris’ Spouse Visa Approval. Officially changed my name in Australia.
March. Problems with the Immigration regarding Chris’ date of departure from Dubai. Getting ready for my reunion with the Husband: travel preps and office preps. My SWEET REUNION WITH THE HUSBAND. Arrived in DUBAI!!!
April. Explored Dubai. A taste of Abu Dhabi. Quick stay in Singapore. Back home in Sydney with the Husband (finally!!!). Chris’ welcome party. Showed the Husband around the City of Sydney.
May. “Ibyang Doodles” website is born. A day at Blue Mountains. Chris’ grandma passed away. La Perouse and Brighton Beach exploration with Hilda, Andrea and Toti. Celebrated 10 years of being an HR Professional.
June. On Board Kix Tavora’s Team. Phantom of the Opera (The Musical).
July. World Youth Day 2008 (Australia). Billy Elliot (Musical).
August. Port Stephens Roadtrip. Snowy Mountains Adventure. Quick Stopover at Canberra. Blue Mountains Roadtrip. Fr. Fernando Suarez’ Healing Mass.
September. Chris’ Pre-birthday Party. False Alarm. Chris’ Birthday. Chris’ Post-Birthday Party. Dinner at Bahay Kubo with Friends. Trip to Berrima. Tulips Festival in Bowral.
October. Floriade Festival in Canberra. Approval of Australian Citizenship. Realizations. Bus Accident. Moving Day! Night Noodle Festival. Wine Tasting at the Hunter Valley. Halloween Night with the Kolokoys.
November. Meet-up and Lunch with Plurk Buddies Jo and Pen. Lunch Party for Our Relatives. Housewarming Party for the Kolokoys.
December. Christmas Chair Tree Lighting. Dear Pink. Chris Being Permanent at Work. Dinner at BBQ City. Dinner at Sagano. Wii Party. Christmas Eve Party. Our First Christmas Together. Sydney New Year’s Eve Party!
Favorite articles I’ve written for this year:
- Surviving a Long Distance Marriage
- Wanderlust
- Pepper Lunch and Fashion Flower review
- Kami ay mga Batang Batibot
- Apple Store Opens in Sydney
- Glebe Cafes (Naggy’s and Fair Trade Coffee Co.)
- World Youth Day Articles
- On Why I Will Never Say, “You Complete Me.”
- 20/20 (A Golden Monthsary Special)
- On My Love for Reading Books
- Blue Mountains Chocolate (A Cafe Review)
- How To Get Along with Monday
- Pia’s Interview
Blog Highlights:
- “A Wife’s Charmed Life” has been featured in whatsikat.com a couple of times these year.
- I became part of the Paulo Coelho Virtual Exhibition.
- “A Wife’s Charmed Life” celebrated it’s first year.
- Revamp of “A Wife’s Charmed Life”.
- My post-22 article was featured in Big Day Plunge (you can read the article here.)
- My Mooncake Festival 2008 article was featured in Viloria.net (you can read the article here.)
- Received awards from Thet, Jannesse, Rachel, Edong, Pusa, Jhari, Julie, Mauie, Anne, Blue Rose, Techa (Thank you very very much for these!!! Have I forgotten anyone? If so, let me know so I can add and link you up).
- Won a raffle via Wifely Steps’ Celebrate 5 Years with 5 Bloggers!
Click on the colored phrases to refer back to the articles.
13 Comments
Em Dy
Quite an eventful year you had! Happy new year!
Ibyang
happy new year!
paolo from whatsikat.com
Congratulations! I hope 2009 will be even better for you!
{girl}forallstatus
wow, a lot of accomplishments. good for you…i might do this and reflect on the past year. thanks for sharing and happy new year to you and your husband! =)
reyna elena
gurl ang ganda mo! grrr!!! congratulations on your accomplishments! wish you the best for some more of the more! hahaha!
Twilight Zone
First of all i would like to thank you for visiting my site and for following pala lol and secondy tama si rheynz ang ganda mo naman at pangatlo ang cute ng cam mo hahaha, thanx ulit sana palagi mo kong dalawin hahaha happy new year.
something purple
Happy New Year Ibyang and winner ang layout 🙂
More blessings this year!
Mauie
Happy New Year!
I love your new blog banner!
jenaisle
Well written and impressive. Congratulations and wishing you a more colorful 2009. Cheers.
Heart of Rachel
Happy New Year! This is a wonderful way to welcome 2009. Looking back with gratefulness must be rewarding to the heart.
BTW, I totally love your new header. You look fab!
luna miranda
quite an exciting year! here’s wishing you more adventures in 2009!
Jay - agent112778
wow ang dami nyong blessings last year, i hope that you have twice as much this year and for the comming years…
i love yur blog’s new look lalo na sa banner nyo. yur dress and slippers are great compliment to you 🙂
Here is Mine
magandang araw ka-lasa-ista 🙂
Salamat sa pagbisita 🙂
spiCes
you are indeed ‘charmed’ ibyang! such a nice post…happy new year! and keep that ‘charmed’ life going!:)