The Married Life

We celebrated our 23rd monthsary at the Blacktown RSL tonight. It was a first time for me and Chris to have dinner there. Since it was a Saturday, it was Seafood buffet.

This was our view from where we were seated.

I find it amusing that while eating, we can see the roof of our apartment (it’s the one with reddish/orangey roof, almost middle part of the photo above). We were two blocks away from the RSL, very convenient for us.

Here’s some of the food the we ate:

Fried galore: prawn, crabmeat, fish cocktail, calamari rings and pork dumplings

Fried rice, crab, salt and pepper prawns, sweet-chili mussels

Ham and sushi

For dessert, we had a few slices of watermelon, chocolate mousse and cheesecake. We were so full, had trouble getting up. Good thing we had to walk going home.

We are also celebrating a milestone for Chris’ career today, an answered prayer: he was made a permanent employee at work (woohoo!!!). We are very very happy for this new development in our lives.

The journey for Chris to find a job here was no joke. It took him three months to break in the job market. We’ve had a couple of tough times because we were helping our families in the Phils, trying to make ends meet. In August, he got a contractual job. According to the company, they were on freezed hiring but they really need a graphic artist so a contractual employee is all they can afford. My husband accepted the offer, the important thing was just to have a job and at least it was a graphic artist job. Better than nothing and knowing us, we never said ‘no’ to an opportunity given to us.

Two weeks ago, Chris had a surprise meeting with his boss, he was asked if he wanted to stay with the company. Of course he said “yes”, because he loved it there already. Last Thursday, he was officially a part of the company. 🙂 According to Chris, it was on Wednesday afternoon that he was made to sign the contract and his boss announced the good news to everyone on their team during an afternoon tea celebration (with cakes and all hehe).

As his wife and partner, I’m very happy and relieved for my husband. I know that since he arrived here, his goal was to find a job as soon as possible so that we can start fulfilling our plans. I know it wasn’t easy for him to get over rejections one after another. It wasn’t easy, but the patience and resilience my husband has shown is admirable.

As I end this entry, let me just say a few thanks: to family and friends who truly listened and empathized, may God bless you a thousand fold with all the support you have given us and to The One Above whom we give back all the glory–maraming-maraming salamat po!

During our darkest days this year, we have held on to one of the most beautiful teachings of Christ. It is in this teaching that we have found more hope and comfort.

THE EIGHT BEATITUDES OF JESUS

“Blessed are the poor in spirit,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Blessed are they who mourn,
for they shall be comforted.

Blessed are the meek,
for they shall inherit the earth.

Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
for they shall be satisfied.

Blessed are the merciful,
for they shall obtain mercy.

Blessed are the pure of heart,
for they shall see God.

Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they shall be called children of God.

Blessed are they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”


Gospel of St. Matthew 5:3-10

Since Husband and I are celebrating a special milestone in our life today, he took me out on a movie date! I finally got to watch “Twilight”. The moment I saw the trailer of this movie, I got excited because it’s been awhile since I’ve seen a vampire film–and the trailer looked really good. I even read the book first because I wanted to be “prepared”. However, I was disappointed. 
My husband and I found it boring. 

After the movie, the Husband treated me to lunch at Panarotti’s. We had my favorite three-cheese pizza and Napolitana spaghetti.

So what’s the highlight of your Weekend?

One fateful December morning, we started the day holding hands.
Since then, there was never a moment he’s let go of my hand.
Happy 6th Syota-nniversary!!! 🙂

Just like a star across my sky 
Just like an angel off the page  
You have appeared to my life  
Feel like I'll never be the same  
Just like a song in my heart 
Just like oil on my hands 
Oh.. I do love you.  
 
Still I wonder why it is 
I don't argue like this 
With anyone but you 
We do it all the time  
Blowing out my mind  
 
You've got this look i can't describe  
You make me feel like I'm alive 
When everything else is a fade 
Without a doubt you're on my side  
Heaven has been away too long  
Can't find the words to write this song  
Oh..your love,   
 
Still i wonder why it is  
I don't argue like this  
With anyone but you 
We do it all the time  
Blowing out my mind  
I have come to understand  
The way it is 
 
It's not a secret anymore  
'cause we've been through that before  
From tonight I know that you're the only one  
I've been confused and in the dark 
Now I understand   
 
I wonder why it is  
I don't argue like this  
With anyone but you 
I wonder why it is 
I won't let my guard down  
For anyone but you  
We do it all the time 
Blowing out my mind  
Just like a star across my sky  
Just like an angel off the page  
You have appeared to my life 
Feel like I'll never be the same  
Just like a song in my heart 
Just like oil on my hands. 
 

Corinne Baily Rae – Just Like A Star.mp3 –

*photo was taken a month after we became an “Us” in 2002 (camera used: nikon film SLR).

The Husband and I have a found a perfect meeting place. For the past two weeks, whenever we need to meet up after work, we’d meet up at the Apple Store: free computer and free internet…or you can hang out at the iPod area and listern to music. 🙂

Yesterday, I played with this:

…a 30-inch Apple Cinema HD Display.

The Husband told me to put my hand on the screen…it’s massive!

Siyempre, a shot plaguing “A Wife’s Charmed Life” hehehe.

I’ve finally decided what Christmas gift I want…and the Husband is making that BIG Apple switch (he can’t wait).

For the past month, Husband and I have been spending weekends either with relatives and friends or we’re busy buying stuff for the home. So this weekend, we declared it as a Weekend Date, where we exclusively just hang out with each other and stay home and do anything we want (but that includes chores hehehe).
Friday night, we had dinner at The Rocks to watch the lighting of the Christmas Chair Tree. While having dinner we were entertained by a Hawaiian Band and an acapella group singing Christmas songs. It was so lovely. Our Friday dinner date ended us having coffee at Starbucks where I had my Christmas favorite “Toffee Nut Latte.”
Saturday, I was pretty busy in the kitchen as I cooked a lot of stuff like Spam, Egg and Fried Rice (I usually cook something unhealthy for breakfast once a week as a sort of treat for eating cereal for the rest of the week), Menudo and Fat Burning Soup. While I was busy cooking, Husband assembled our Tallboy cabinet.
Since it’s summer here in Australia, we welcomed the first summer weekend by having Halo-halo and Turon for afternoon snacks.
After our delicious afternoon snack, we had a bit of re-arranging of furnitures. Our bedroom really looks like a bedroom now (Yay!). Now we only need to find lampshades we like for our side tables.
Sunday morning was just spent at the shops for some grocery and a little Christmas shopping.
Weekends like these are priceless. Although we do enjoy spending time with relatives and families, it’s always good to re-connect with each other every chance we get.
May you all have a blessed week!