The Married Life

We left Sydney on a rainy Thursday, had a stopover at Darwin (still in the continent of Australia) in the middle of the night and woke up on Friday morning seeing Manila come alive. Manila’s beautiful in the dark from above. The city’s full of lights; it’s like a a pond full of tea lights. It was a great welcome after two years of being away from our first home.
Here are a few snippets of the first few days we’ve been here. 

We traveled via Australia’s budget airline, Jetstar, so we arrived at NAIA 1. It was 5ish in the morning and our flight had the airport to ourselves. Going thru immigration, claiming our suitcases and customs was a breeze. 
We checked-in at the Remington Hotel at Resorts World Manila to rest there for two days. The Husband and I didn’t have any plans of going anywhere except Metro Manila but we’d like to make sure we get to relax in the city. Checking in at a hotel upon arrival revived us and helped in letting the idea that we are on holiday sink in. 
In the two days that we were at Resorts World Manila, we were able to have delicious meals at Shakey’s, Crisostomo and TWG; watch John Lloyd and Sarah’s movie “It Takes a Man and a Woman”; and watch “The King and I” (the musical). We also had a bit of fun playing in the casinos.
We’ve been having wonderful gatronomical indulgences since we came here. Manila is slowly becoming a food mecca with many restaurants offering good quality food and getting more creative in presenting Filipino food. 
Manila Life. I’m trying my best to get used to life in Manila and not to compare it too much to the old Manila that I used to love and know. Manila is home and I will love this city no matter what happens. While the new things fascinates me, I can’t help but say that Manila has changed so so much. 

Manila Heat. It is summer here and the temps average between 32-25 degree Celsius. We are not bothered by the heat as it is similar to the heat in Sydney when we have heatwaves. However, the humidity is thick and heavy and the air is polluted which we find quite a challenge. 

Manila Streets. The streets in Manila will never bore you. I’m fascinated by how the traffic works here  and how everyone just makes do with whatever space they can find on the highway. The bikey people terrifies me the most as they sneak up on you on both sides. I call the Pedestrian Lanes here “artwork” because no one honours them.
Manila Food. While we are never homesick for Filipino food in Sydney, there are still some things we don’t have there. Also, we’re discovering more new food offerings here so we buy one or two just to try. 

Manila Shopping. Manila is a shopping haven. They have so many brands here now and we’re very much enjoying buying Summer clothes here.
Manila Rejuvenates. The first three days we’ve been here I made sure to spend time at the spa for a body massage, a nail spa to pamper my hands, feet and nails, and a hair salon to have my scalp massaged, hair spa and hair cut. When in Manila, make sure you do these! Services for beauty and relaxation are pretty much affordable and you have a lot of salons and spas to choose from. 

Manila Reunites. What makes our vacation always memorable are the special people we spend time with. Our family and friends are always worth coming home for. As early as now, let me say thank you to the warmth and time they have given us.  In our travel, they are our greatest blessings.


The Husband and I have been sharing our travel experiences via our instagram account. Follow us there if you want to see Manila in a different light (Husband’s account: @keemps17 and mine: @ibyang). I also share some photos in my tumblr account Postcards on Air. You can also follow me at twitter @ibyang.
I have written a year or two ago that I aim for simplicity. Since then I filter what comes in and out of our lives and at the same I have become more vigilant in de-cluttering not just material things but habits that never do us good.

The road to simplicity is a journey. It is a process, a paradigm shift, a lifestyle choice. One of the ways to live simply is to get rid of clutter. At home, we try to find systems on how to not accumulate things we don’t need which later on becomes clutter.

Our simple system includes:

1.) Mini de-cluttering sessions every weekend. This involves getting rid of things on the interim like newspapers, food inside the fridge, mails, bills, etc. I set aside about one to two hours for this on a Sunday afternoon.

2.) Major de-cluttering sessions every quarter. This involves going inside closets, organising clothes, shoes; getting rid of things we don’t need; revisiting book shelves, etc. This usually eats up a whole weekend for the Husband and I. 

3.) Taking note of expiry dates of toiletries, cosmetics and food. We put labels on things that have expiry dates and arrange them on the shelf were we can see them all the time. We follow the FIFO principle (first in, first out).

4.) We avoid collecting items. We do keep some things we like but we make sure not to overdo it. Space inside the home becomes a concern whenever I think of collecting stuff so we keep things to a minimum and manageable number. We’re a bit lenient though when it comes to books because the Husband and I love to read and books are important to us (We have resorted to e-books to keep from buying too many books). 

I’m sharing our simple system to you because two weekends ago, the Husband and I had a super major de-cluttering session. It was doubly-major because other than a quarterly de-clutter session, we also had in mind that we are travelling soon and we had to make space for some things we might buy during travel.

So I started with toiletries and cosmetics on Saturday. This was a pretty easy task as I only have few cosmetics now. 

The following day, we spent 8 hours sorting out clothes into three categories: (1) for charity (2) to be “vacuumed” up and (3) to be brought out for the Autumn and Winter season. This was a big task as we had to let go of about 25 kilos of clothes. We had to vacuum up a few clothes we didn’t want to part with such as shirts that have cool graphics in it. I plan to someday make an artwork or quilt out of them. 

On Monday (I took a day-off to finish everything), I took the task of de-cluttering our pantry. This took me about 2 hours.

It was an exhausting weekend but the Husband and I were proud of ourselves to be able to let of some things most dear to us. There will always be a sentimental part of us when we let go of clothes and shoes because they remind us of happy memories but we get courage from the fact that we want a clutter-free home.

The thing with de-cluttering is it’s not enough that you organise your things, it’s also a matter of cleaning the space and putting systems in place so that you have a home where you can easily find things. That is also one of my premise on living simply, that is having a system that is friendly and doesn’t make your life complicated.

De-cluttering is an art of letting go and living simply.

The best thing about being a wife to an artist is that I get to be his muse. I giggle with glee whenever he gifts me with his art. Whether it may be art designs or photographs, whether I’m in it or not, I appreciate receiving them. I’m proud of his talent and I’m his number one fan.

We had a very busy long weekend which started with visit to the Korean Consulate. And while our thoughts were preoccupied with a million things to do, we made it a point to have fun too.
We recently got an olloclip for the Husband’s iPhone 5. Since we’ll be travelling soon and saw the potential of the iPhone 5’s camera in capturing good, clear photos, we decided to invest on an olloclip. The olloclip is a 3-in-1 lens which includes a fisheye, wide angle and macro lens. We were amazed with the capability of an olloclip as it enhances capturing photographs via an iPhone. We love it!

Last Friday, the Husband gifted me with his photographs, some of which he captured using an olloclip. Here are some of them.

The Train’s Here. He used the fisheye lens for this and then processed it into monochome via the Snapseed app.
In Transit. Again in monochrome…because the Husband knows I love monochrome photographs.
All Ours. Caught a different train when we arrived at Central and what a nice blessing to have the carriage just to ourselves. This one’s just a normal phone photo. No olloclip involved. 
 Levitation. Jump when no one’s watching. I think this was my best photo that day. And the of the most fun photos we’ve created. To levitate inside a train carriage – check! 🙂

Train leaving. Still in fisheye lens. This is one of Sydney’s old underground stations. There’s a something dreamy and spooky about this photograph.

Husband’s Got My Back. Me walking out the tunnel in St James Train Station. So lucky that for one moment, we got this tunnel all to ourselves. The Husband told me to walk ahead of him and took of snap of me.

In Between Buildings. This was Pitt Street in wide angle lens. 

The Husband made a monochrome version and posted it on his instagram.

Those were just a few photographs that made me very happy on Friday. Grateful for a Husband who thinks of me while he creates his art.
Chanced upon a camera shirt at a Korean clothing store named SPAO in April 2011. SPAO is a global clothing brand shop offering various items from casual wear to men’s suits, women’s suits, children’s clothing, underwear, sportswear, and accessories.  We were on our way back to our hotel when we passed by their store. It was here that the Husband found a good winter jacket and this camera shirt that I liked the moment I saw it.
November 2012, we were grateful to receive gifts from our friends from SG which included a UNIQLO camera shirt for the Husband. I realized that it matches my shirt from SPAO

Aren’t they cute??? The amusing thing was it was a pleasant surprise that my camera shirt has found a match after almost two years. It was kind of serendipitous too that both of us are into photography.

We had a fun day last Saturday with friends as we had karaoke lunch at Mizuya (yup, third time in just three weeks!). We booked a private room for two hours but we enjoyed the food and singing too much that we extended for another hour. Time is never enough when you’re having fun and catching up with good friends.

A few highlights:

The karaoke lunch was organized by one of our friends in honour of  those who celebrated their birthday in January and February. We especially cheered for two of our friends who celebrated their 35th and 40th this month.

We had the yummiest red velvet Darth Vader and Storm Trooper cupcakes during the event. 

We had to play and sing “Oppa Gangnam Style” twice for the kids.  I swear, there’s something about that song that makes the kids get on their feet and dance. And they can get enough of it! Nakakaloka!  After playing it the second time, they even requested “Do it again” and the adults all went, “Nooooo”. Haha. 

My BFF and I have this song that we always sing whenever we go karaoke. I consider this song one of “our” songs. Now that we’re at a different phase of our lives, we shared our song to her daughter/my goddaughter. It was an “awwww moment” when I saw a photo of us three. How time flies.  Never did we imagine we’d be singing our song with a little one in tow. 

Karaoke lunches are super fun! Our group enjoyed Mizuya‘s affordable lunch meals and we’re able to sing and be loud in the privacy of a room. I’m so glad we tried doing something like this.

After our party with friends, the Husband and I went to Chinatown to do a few souvenir shopping.

While we were at Chinatown, Tony Abbott (leader of Opposition) arrived to celebrate Chinese New Year. 

Our Saturday day-out ended late in the afternoon. A great day spent with good friends and the Hubby.