Milestones

I had mixed emotions yesterday when I celebrated my 3rd year anniversary as a migrant here in Australia. On my third year, I’m happy of the big achievements I’ve made (like bringing the husband here and being able to find our first home) however, it was also this year that a part of me regretted coming here. There were some things that happened this year that made me say “Had I known this would happen, I would’ve stayed in Manila.” And since something like that occured, it also made me think again if I was meant to be here.

It was this year that I applied for my Australian Citizenship…it took awhile for me to lodge my application as I had to think again and again if I’m really going to do it. Sometimes even if I’m a bit undecided, I still do things as they are presented infront of me.

So I took the Australian Citizenship exam. I was pressured to pass (other than the fact that I hate failure because it means time being wasted–that’s just me) because I’m surrounded by relatives who work for the government, one of whom even works at the Immigration. Not to mention that I am also a government employee myself. Nakakahiya kung hindi ako makapasa. The funny thing was, when I arrived at the venue for testing, the boyfriend of my cuzin (who works at the Immigration too) was at the reception area welcoming those who were scheduled for oath-taking. Ano ba??? The moment I saw him I said, “So I really have to pass now because you’re here!!”

So that was my Australian Citizenship exam story. I really studied, took down notes and remembered all the names, places and dates that needed to be remembered. I passed with a perfect score. The registration took longer than answering the test (it was fairly easy).

I filed my Australian Citizenship application in July. It takes awhile these days to get an answer back as there are many people applying compared to years ago when the Immigration were the ones encouraging people to apply for citizenship. The approval came in last week, in time for my 3rd year mark. It’s all good. I guess I’m really doing it now–say “I do” to Australia soon. Now I’m only waiting for another letter saying when my oath-taking will be.

We sort of celebrated yesterday by having dinner at Hyde Park. The Night Noodle Festival started this week so we opted to feed ourselves cheap Asian Cuisine at the park.

Some expensive/exclusive Chinese “resto” at the park. We didn’t eat here. We just lined up at one of the stalls and had dinner near the fountain at Hyde Park.

They had dragon dances for entertainment. Very very festive. I almost wanted to shout “Kung Hei Fat Choi!” hehe

Our Yum-Cha dinner: Fried Dim Sum, Pork Buns and Prawn Dumplings.

Very oily Hookien Noodles 🙂

Me in my “ngarag” look.

Chris

Our friends Louie, Luanne and Teena who brought us so much laughter by asking “jolog” questions.

With all the good and the bad, I’m staying and in general terms, I am happy still. I will admit that I’ve fallen inlove with this country already, plus the friends that we have here had made it more home. And believe it or not, the husband likes it here more than I do, so wherever he is, that’s where I will be. Home is where the heart is…home is where he is.

…with blessings and answered prayers.

Two things:

(1) Found a new home and will move soon.

(2) Received a letter from the Immigration saying that my citizenship has been approved. I’m now awaiting on when my oath-taking will be (will probably take a couple of months but at least I know I got approved).

Wow! What a good 3rd-anniversary-in-Sydney gift to me.

Thank you, Lord. Thank you family and friends. Thank you Husband.

16 September 2008 (on the eve of the Husband’s birthday)

I decided to give Chris a Korean Birthday Celebration since we’re both into watching Korean TV series and I love Korean BBQ so I want Chris to experience it as well.

As soon as I get off work, I met up with him in Chinatown and took him to two shops that sell Korean DVDs. As one of my birthday pressies, I let him choose a Korean TV series that he liked.

After that we went straight to Charcoal Mine Barbeque House in Parramatta where we had Korean BBQ buffet. We ate lots!!!!

It was also our first time to try Sojo, Korea’s native drink which was 20% alcohol. It’s like drinking gin, quite strong. We didn’t finished it, we were too scared to get drunk hehe.

After dinner, we hung out at some artsy cafe called Mars Hill and had green tea coz we were too full. Very very cozy ambience.

We ended the night at home watching what else but the first episode of the Korean TV series that Chris got for a present.
For more photos, click here: Chris’ Pre-birthday Korean Dinner

20 September 2008, our 20th wedding monthsary, our golden month.

If there’s such a thing as a golden year (it is when your birth date is the same as your age for that certain year), I’m making our 20th month on the 20th of September our golden month.

Last Saturday, the Husband surprised me with a movie :). After our lunch party with friends and afternoon tea by the lake, the Husband insisted that we stop by the shopping mall before going home. I thought we’d just have our usual weekly coffee date.

Before we went to the cafe, I exused myself and went to the ladies’ room and when I got out, I found the Husband still outside the cafe and said “Let’s watch WALL-E, it’s starting in 5 minutes”. I was like, “No kidding!!”

So that’s how we celebrated our 20th month. 🙂

And because it is our 20th month, let me answer Nikki’s question a couple of months ago: “How did you two meet?”

Ours was the classic story of enemies turned friends. We used to work in the same bank in Makati, he from the Marketing Support Dept and me from Training Dept. In 2001, Training Department was the only department that had a multi-media projector (MMP) and so all departments, including Chris’ department, borrowed from us. At that time, I was also in-charge of training facilities and equipments so whoever needed to borrow an equipment should coordinate with me.

Everytime Chris’ department borrows the MMP, he would ALWAYS drop by our office during lunchtime—and of course, that made me hate him. And so everytime he would disturb me in the middle of my lunch break, I’d lend him the MMP but I would be very hostile (as in nagsu-sungit ako ever) to him. Basically, that’s how we interacted at the office. And everytime we passed by each other, deadma ako!

In February 2002, I got invited by one of the Marketing Support’s guys whom I’m friends with. Ojie said “the gang” will have drinks at Decades (in Makati Cinema Square) after work. I asked, “Sino yung “the gang”? and he replied, “Tayo-tayo lang na taga-Head Office.” And so I went. Lo and behold, Chris was there. Eto na.

Me: Bakit nandito yan?

Ojie: Barkada yan.

Me: Kaaway ko yan.

Ojie: Okay lang yan. Bandido, si Ibyang. Ibyang, si Bandido.

And that was it. We HAD to be friends.

Celebrating our 2nd SyotAnniversary in Baguio (December 2004)

Eventually, our gimiks became a regular thing so little by little, Chris and I became good friends and each other’s confidant. We’ve seen each other get over heartaches at work, life and love…shared milestones, frustrations, dreams, childhood memories, kalokohans and office tsismis. From kwek-kweks, fishballs, KFC, McDo to Starbucks sessions. Before we knew it, “magic” happened. So here we are today, now husband and wife, but still the best of friends.

Marriage is a challenging thing, it is never easy…there are hurdles that will take you sometimes by surprise. Everyday you learn something new about your partner. One moment you’re fighting with each other, then kissing and making up the next.

It is crazy…it is one great bumpy ride…but it is fun when you have your best friend and partner holding your hand thru it all.