Deep Thoughts

I’m slowly going back thru all our photos from our vacation.  It’s taking awhile to blog and share them as I arrived in Sydney with a nasty flu which doesn’t want to go away (probably due to fatigue as well).  Anyway, I’m feeling much better this week and I’m looking forward to going back to work tomorrow.

One of the things that I looked forward to when we went to Manila was to meet some of my blogger friends.  The online world is such an amazing place.  I’ve met so many wonderful people thru blogging, plurking and tweeting. 

I would have loved to meet all my online buddies but with a hectic schedule, I’m thankful that I got to meet a few of them.

Xingkit was my first meetup.  We met in plurk and then when our ka-plurks moved to twitter, we continued our chitchats there.  Thru our exchanges, we found out that we used to be a part of the same yahoo community (Weddings@Work).  We’re not sure if we had an encounter there but we are happy we met somewhere in the blogosphere.  She blogs about her mommy adventures and the funny little milestones of her cute daughter (whom I’ve met too!).

Meetups with Blogger Friends


I don’t know whether it’s the longevity of being tweethearts but the moment we saw each other, it was as if we’ve been friends for a long time (ang daldal namin haha).  She’s so friendly that even my mom liked her! 

Meetups with Blogger Friends


We had lunch at Sbarro and we both love their Baked Zitti.  We found out that we are somehow neighbors (her place is like 10 minutes away from where I live in the Phils).  It’s a comfort that when I visit the Phils the next time, it will be easy for us to see each other again.

Meetups with Blogger Friends

Meeting Jane and Julie was like meeting old friends.  The minute they arrived at UCC Cafe (Podium) for afternoon tea, we hugged!  Like Xingkit, I met them via plurk in 2007 and from then on, we have plurked, tweeted and visited each others’ blogs. 

Meetups with Blogger Friends


When it comes to blogging, Jane and Julie are two of my idols.  I’m truly amazed at how dedicated they are when it comes to blogging.  Jane blogs about her journey as a yogini, personal thoughts and what’s hot and new in the Philippines.  Julie blogs about her personal thoughts, interests, passion in special education and homeschooling.  She’s also a photography enthusiast like me.

Meetups with Blogger Friends


When bloggers get together, we can’t help but bring out the thing(s) that make our existence in the blogosphere possible.  Here’s me and Jane, tweeting while chatting.

Meetups with Blogger Friends


Jane and Julie introduced me to this delicious dessert at UCC Cafe.  I forgot the name but it had apples, apple syrup and cinnamon.  I loved it!

Meetups with Blogger Friends


Special thanks to Julie for giving me a pearl bracelet.  Really sweet and thoughtful of her.  I now consider this a friendship bracelet.

Meetups with Blogger Friends

I met K when she visited Sydney a year ago and hit it off so when she learned that I will be visiting Manila, she invited me to have lunch and catch up.  We’ve been tweetmates since last year thanks to our common friend, Lena.

Meetups with Blogger Friends

It was lovely to see her again.  I hope she visits Sydney again soon!  Like me, she loves to travel and has a passion for photography.

Meetups with Blogger Friends


We had lunch at Bizu Patisserie and I had this yummy pasta with Chorizo.

Meetups with Blogger Friends

Two meet-ups in one day.  After our lunch with K, dinner was spent with three more blogmates/tweethearts: Tintin, Bea and Twistedsavant.  Our dinner was one of the funnest dinner I’ve had with friends.  I don’t know if it’s because we’ve been tweetmates for awhile but even if we’ve come from different worlds, we just hit it off like we’ve been “barkadas” for a long time.  No awkward moments, just fun and laughter all throughout the night.

Meetups with Blogger Friends


Meetups with Blogger Friends

We had dinner at Kanin Club and enjoyed the sumptuous dishes we ordered.  My favourite that night was the Seafood Kare-Kare.

Meetups with Blogger Friends

The sweetest thing was being given this Banoffee Pie from Banapple.  My heart melted when I saw what was written on the cake (awww).  I knew I wouldn’t have time to dine at Banapple but thanks to Bea and Tintin, they made it possible for me (and my family) to enjoy this super delicious cake. 

Meetups with Blogger Friends

Dyanie is another sweet soul I met via plurk.  She blogs about her travel and food adventures.  We met for early lunch at Bonchon so my Husband and I can have a taste of this famous South Korean-based fried chicken franchise restaurant.  Dyanie is like a younger sister to me.  Even if she’s offline, she keeps in touch by sending me text messages.

Meetups with Blogger Friends


Meetups with Blogger Friends


Bonchon Chicken is delicious, however, it is not as juicy as other fried chickens that I’ve tried. 

Meetups with Blogger Friends

Dyanie gifted me with a Red Velvet Cake from UCC, which my Husband and I enjoyed for dessert after our hearty lunch.

Meetups with Blogger Friends

Kenny is another longtime blogmate.  It is a wonder how thru our blogs, we got to know and inspire each other.  I love how she writes her thoughts, milestones and mommy anecdotes.  I admire her passion for collecting the most number of Starbucks Citymug that’s why a few days before I left for Manila, I asked her what citymug from Australia she’d like to own.

Meetups with Blogger Friends


However, she surprised me by giving me two mini Starbucks citymugs too!  Kenny is a joy to be with.  She has a bubbly personality and her stories are funny and entertaining. 

Meetups with Blogger Friends


Meetups with Blogger Friends

And another surprise was that she wrote about our meetup here.  Awww, so sweet!

starbucks mini mugs

I always tell my family how blessed I am when it comes to finding friends online.  Other than sharing a love for the blogosphere, I meet people who are genuine and inspiring.


After my holiday in the Philippines, I’m more in awe of our Filipino bloggers.  Given that the internet speed in the Phils is not as fast as other countries, I admire the patience and dedication of Filipino bloggers who blog and share their life and knowledge online.  Now more than ever, I’m thankful to all my Filipino readers.  Maraming maraming salamat!  Saludo ako sa mga Filipino bloggers!

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De-cluttering is a normal occurrence at home.  Every weekend, I sort out stuff that needs to be thrown away.  Every month, I file away documents that needs to be filed.  Every end of season, we sort out clothes that needs to be donated to charity. 

For the past three weekends, I’ve been seriously de-cluttering because of two reasons:
(1) I realized that even if I de-clutter on a regular basis, there are some things that still needs to be rid of
(2) Husband and I are going on a vacation and we need to figure out what we’ll bring and make an inventory of what we have so we don’t end up shopping for stuff we don’t need. 

The first weekend, we de-cluttered our closet and sorted out clothes, bags and shoes.  The process was physically and emotionally exhausting because it took us the whole day to finish and we let go of clothes that were dear to us. 

de-cluttering clothes, shoes & bags



One of the dress I gave away was the one I wore on our engagement party.  I could have kept it for the sake of being sentimental but I thought the best way was to give it away and maybe make someone else’ life memorable too.

my engagement dress


The task resulted to four big bags full of clothes, shoes and bags off to charity.


The following weekend I divided my time and sorted out
(a) my jewellery and accessories
(b) my make-up and beauty products

A few things I learned after I sorted my jewellery and accessories: I have a lot but seldom wear them; I have a lot because most of them were gifts; I should get myself a better and bigger storage box or jewellery box; and I should wear them more often.

I was able to put them in a temporary storage bag but one of the things I will look for when I’m in Manila would be a more user-friendly storage box for them. 

I also safe kept the ones I will be bringing with me when we travel.  Every time we travel, I make sure I bring a set of the following: gold jewellery, Pearls, Swarovskis and some fashion accessories, plus my watches. 

This task took about four hours to finish because other than sort out, I also cleaned them. 

sorting out of jewelleries & accessories



After sorting out my jewellery, I turned to my make-up, cosmetics and perfume lot.  This task was a bit easy because I didn’t have that much make-up anymore.  I only buy make-up once a year now, usually at the start of the year.  One mascara, two foundation, two blush-ons, two sets of eye make-up and a couple of lipsticks and eyeliners–that’s about it really, those are my basic. 

Again, after sorting them out, I segregated the ones I will be bringing with me when we travel.  My little beauty area now looks like this….

de-cluttered beauty corner




Last weekend, I saved the best for last and sorted our files.  The files would refer to cards and letters we received, bills and invoices paid, travel paraphernalia and souvenirs.  I was supposed to do this task on Saturday but I actually did this on Friday night.  I stayed up til 1:30am (technically, it was Saturday when I finished) because I needed to distract myself from all the sad news about Japan and the tsunami threat in different countries.  The task of de-cluttering helped a lot in easing the sadness I felt that night, which only shows how much of a de-cluttering queen I am sometimes (take note: sometimes only, not all the time!).  Yes, whenever I feel down & depressed, one of my instincts would be to clean whatever I feel like cleaning inside the house or sort out anything I can get my hands on. 

Anyway, this task was very productive because I was able to finalize all the documents we need to bring with us to Manila and I was able to make an inventory of the travel tickets and bookings we’ve printed out.

de-cluttering of files


Now that we’re done with de-cluttering and sorting out stuff, Husband and I are now focused on getting ready for our trip. 

Before the atmosphere was enveloped in darkness tonight, I had the best of both worlds as I stood for a moment in our home’s balcony.


On my left, the sun sets and the sky was a rainbow-full of colours.

sunset today


Here’s another photo…this time I used an effect from instagram.

sunset today



While the sun was slowly setting, this was what was happening on my right.

the moon tonight



The lovely moon illuminates.  I used an effect from instagram to enhance this photo.

the moon tonight



Those were my left and right views as I stood in the middle of our balcony.  A lovely way to end a happy and productive day.  A great reminder that no matter how our day has been, the sun will set, the moon will shine (sometimes at the same time!) and tomorrow is another chance at hope, happiness, opportunities and love.


How was your day today?

(All photos taken by an iPhone 4)

Have you ever wondered how you’ve come to like or love a certain photographer? 

Being a photography enthusiast, I have always wondered why I’ve come to love my favorite photographers–and there are only a few.  And no, it’s not because I’m an enthusiast that I’ve set a high standard. There are no high standards at all.  In fact, I realized that when it comes to loving a photographer’s work of art, I only look for one thing. A soul.

There are a lot of great photographers.  But there are a few who capture photographs with soul and one of them is Annie Leibovitz

I’ve come to know her thru her photographs of Queen Elizabeth II, the Obama family, John Lennon and Yoko Ono and Demi Moore when she was pregnant (her nude photo in Vanity Fair that came out in 1991).  

I’ve always admired her work because (1) she’s one of the most trusted photographers of well-known people; (2) there’s always something breathtaking about her photographs and (3) her photos have soul.

On our 4th wedding anniversary (20 January 2011), the Husband and I decided to celebrate the day by indulging in our love for photography.  We are very lucky that the Museum of Contemporary Art in Sydney is exhibiting Annie Leibovitz: A Photographer’s Life 1990-2005It was an opportunity to get to know Annie Leibovitz and her work.  The exhibition showed photographs of her family, her travels, her triumphs and sorrow.  Other than showing some of her most unforgettable work with well-known celebrities, the photographs were a record of some of the most personal moments of her life.  It was a very engaging and lovely collection. 

Annie Leibovitz Exhibition
Annie Leibovitz Exhibition

This is my most (super-duper) favorite photograph of hers.  It was a photo of her deceased lover, Susan.  The photo was captioned “Susan Sontag at Petra, Jordan 1994“.  This photograph spoke volumes to me.  When I saw this photograph, I was unable to move my feet and just kept staring at it.  It almost moved me to tears.  In this photograph, it somehow tells me how big the world is out there.  How there are so much more to discover, to feel, to love, to share.  After seeing all the photographs in the exhibition, I went back to this photograph one more time and look at it again before we left.  One day, I’ll have a copy of this photograph hanging on a wall of our future home.  Someday.

Annie Leibovitz Exhibition

There will never be an exhibition without the book.  Most of the photos found in the exhibition are in this 3-kilo book (yes, it was that heavy, I weighed it!) which serves as a souvenir to all who have seen her exhibition and a learning tool for enthusiasts like me.  It is available at the MCA souvenir shop for AUD$85.00

Annie Leibovitz: A Photographer's Life
Annie Leibovitz: A Photographer's Life
Annie Leibovitz: A Photographer's Life
Annie Leibovitz: A Photographer's Life
Annie Leibovitz: A Photographer's Life
Annie Leibovitz: A Photographer's Life


The exhibition brought together almost 200 photographs and you need about 1 1/2 to 2 hours of viewing her photographs. 

Annie Leibovitz: A Photographer’s Life 1990–2005
 

Organised by the Brooklyn Museum,
19 November 2010– 27 March 2011
 

Admission $15, concessions $10
MCA Members free
Children 12 years and under free
Family (2 adults and 3 children aged 13-17) $40
 

Click HERE TO PURCHASE TICKETS

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Affirmation:

I will make
my life
simpler.


one of my simple joys--being on-board a ferry
One of my simple joys on my birthday (22 Jan 2011)…a ferry ride!

Personal Reflection:

Now that I’m older, I base my decisions on consequences that will make my life easier and simpler. 

Nowadays, I stay away from situations I know will bring complications and stress into my everyday living.  I don’t mind being stressed as long as I know it will result to something productive. 

I spend my time with people and moments that will make me happy.  Time is precious so I choose wisely on who I want to spend it with and what to do during my spare time.  I don’t want a complicated life so I don’t like spending time with complicated people.  Life is so short to be spent in negativity.

I embrace technology if it will make work and managing the home more productive and time-efficient.  If it’s a product that will truly help me and my Husband in having a quality life, why not?

Simplicity is not just  a matter of wanting the simple and inexpensive things.  I believe it is more about one’s mindset in life.  For me, being simple means “un-complicating” things in life.  I believe it’s about making smart choices in order to have a stress-free life.
Have a great week, everyone!