Deep Thoughts

My Mum had these reminder bracelets made at a store called The Bead Shop in the Philippines.  Each bracelet is a reminder of my favourite words and each word are some of the things I believe in and my passions in life.

WANDER.  For my love of travel and learning.  This word reminds me to live curious, think of possibilities and adventure, and be open to changes in life.  When I lust for wander, I don’t only lust for a place to see, I lust for adventure and learning too.


CHARMED. For my strong belief that all good things happen when we believe that it will and that God and the universe conspire to make our dreams come true as long as we work hard for it.


LOVE.  This word inspires me to be kind, to think of love first before anything else; to love myself, my family and friends.  This word reminds me that the universe will never run out of goodness because love is within all us.  


CHERISH.  “Live in the moment and enjoy being”–this is what I always say to myself all the time, that’s why I cherish everything in my world.  Life has taught me to never take anything for granted–such a hard task–so I try.  


INDULGE.  I love this word it reminds me to truly enjoy the things that bring me joy and to also shower my loved ones with things that make them happy. 


These reminder bracelets are available at The Bead Shop Philippines.  Subscribe to their Facebook page and know more about their products.

This song will always remind me of endless choir practices on weekends with my childhood friends and it was, for me, the most challenging piece we have sung together.


Whenever I’m needing some explanation in an aspect of my life or when my emotions seem to be running on uncertainties, I play this song in my head and draw inspiration from the comfort this song brings.


When feeling tired, down, angry or needing to forgive, this song calls out to me to look into my heart and find love in whatever situation I’m in.  And it is through LOVE that I get the courage to love and forgive myself or others, to accept things as they are and let God take care of me and my loved ones. 

LOVE IS THE ANSWER
by: Raymond Hannisian

Morning comes and I must go; day is breaking yonder.
After all the places I have been, now I’m going home.

I have been to seek the sky, to travel on the highway

And the time has come, I don’t know why
I am going home.

Refrain 2:

Where is the answer to so many questions

I don’t know, so I begin another journey

Where is the meaning for my world 
I see the answer now.

Though we came by diff’rent roads, now we walk together.

Stay beside me all our days, strangers never more.

Through the cool of summer rains, by the hearthside fire

Here I’ll be with you when nothing remains
I am home to stay.

Refrain 2:

For love is the answer to so many questions

Now I know, and I can stop my endless wand’ring

Love gives the meaning to my world

I see the answer now.

Love gives meaning to my world

And I see the answer now

Love is the Answer… Love!

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Have a great week, everyone!

There is no Math or Science, no exact formula to make it work…most times it just takes a good balance, letting ourselves go with the flow without compromising the values important to us.


Sometimes there are no reasons…just a lot of understanding, giving and taking.


There are shared moments…of milestones and defeats, of dreams and what-ifs, of tears and most importantly, an abundance of laughter. We never let a day pass without making each other laugh and making each other happy is a always priority.


There are moments when we let each other be…it could be anger, disappointment, frustration or a day when things aren’t going right—whatever the reason, we listen and hope that a hug will make things better (and it does!).


There are adventures…the travels that make us learn more about the world and of each other, the challenges that help us become better people.


There are times for daydreaming…of things we want to do, places we want to go, of seeing ourselves grow old together and still holding hands.


There is so much respect…for each other’s opinions, for when we both need a bit of space, for our individual growth. We always want to bring out the best in each other.


There’s a lot of trust involved…in God, in each other, in people we hold dear.


And of course, there’s friendship and love…our great foundations in being TWOgether. Everyday and always. <3

I couldn’t let January pass without having a (belated) birthday post. This month has been amazing.  I’ve always been glad that I celebrate my birthday on the first month of the year.  I feel like it’s an advantage that I start my year celebrating my birthday and then focus on the rest of my year making my dreams come true.

My word on my birthday is GRATEFUL.  It’s been my word for the past few months and I plan to make it my everyday word.  GRATEFUL is my word because when I say that word, it is actually my prayer of thanks to God.

I’m on my 35th year and even if I still have many things to do, I’m very grateful for every blessing that has been given to me, my family and friends.  I value every blessing, opportunity and circumstance that I’m able to witness in my life and my loved ones’ lives.


There were no plans for any birthday celebrations but it just happened.  We have two group of friends whom we regularly hang out with and somehow the stars aligned that I got to spend time with them two weekends before my birthday.

My lovable Tweethearts had an 80’s themed party on the first Saturday of the month.  It was a day filled with downing delicious home-cooked meals and singing our hearts out with the help of a Magic Sing microphone.  Birit kung birit!  It was so much fun singing and dancing to our favourite tunes (mostly) from the 80s, 90s and early 2000s.  We all went home with tummies full and hearts aglow from our get together.

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The following weekend,  I had dinner with my dearest Kolokoys at Phoenix Parramatta and savoured the best Chinese dishes ever created.  I shared the celebration with two of our fellow Kolokoys who were also January celebrants, Gary and little Bella.  The Kolokoys have a very special bond.  Throughout the years, we have grown together like a family and have witnessed each other’s milestones.  Compared to our past group dates, this birthday celebration with them was actually an impromptu celebration.  A few days before Saturday, an email was sent and even if it was short notice, they all came.  It was truly touching.

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Two days before we left for Melbourne, we had a quiet dinner with my relatives.  I’m so grateful that even if we scheduled it in the middle of the week, they were able to join us.  Whether there’s an occasion or not, I love spending time with them.
Now the Melbourne trip, was yet another unplanned short vacation.  We were having breakfast one Sunday in December and decided to just go ahead with it.  We were actually set on staying in Sydney.  However, celebrating 2 big milestones (our 5th wedding anniversary and my 35th birthday), we had that big urge to get out of Sydney and be somewhere.

As mentioned in a previous post, our Melbourne trip was truly amazing: celebrating with friends, having gastronomical indulgences with the Husband, watching a game at Rod Laver Arena for the Australian Open and being able to see one of the best tennis players of history, Roger Federer, made my birthday more fantastic.
one of my birthday "cakes"
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Grateful on my 35th

Even if I was very quiet about my birthday at the office, the word got out and my workmates organized morning tea in honour of me.  
And just when I thought that all the celebrations were over, the Husband went home last night with one of my favourite sponge cakes in tow.  He made me wish and blow the candle on my cake as he sang “Happy Birthday” in Korean.  Yes, in Korean!!! haha.  How funny and sweet is that?  The Husband said he thought that we should celebrate my birthday before January finally ends.  
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Five celebrations with friends.  Five cakes. Four days in Melbourne.  One tennis match I will always remember.  Lots of gifts from family and friends.  Sweet and touching birthday greetings throughout the month.  The feeling that I’m loved and important to people whom I love too.  Eternally priceless. 

I’m GRATEFUL. 

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It always amazes me when I see a random image that reminds me of a happy moment, make me stop & realize or inspire me.  Things like these are like little treasures I find along the way of getting thru my day.  It’s refreshing and priceless.  

As the Husband and I were doing some furniture shopping during the Christmas holidays, I saw this inspiring message on a throw pillow.  I took a photo so I’ll always be reminded that “BELIEVE” is a verb.  On not-so-good days, I will look at this photo to remind me to never lose faith in the people and things I believe in.

Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.  
– Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.


Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.
– Dale Carnegie


Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.
– Mother Teresa


Faith has to do with things that are not seen and hope with things that are not at hand. 
– Thomas Aquinas 


Faith is a knowledge within the heart, beyond the reach of proof. 
– Khalil Gibran 


Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe. 
– Saint Augustine 


To one who has faith, no explanation is necessary. To one without faith, no explanation is possible. 
– Thomas Aquinas 

Wishing you all a great week!  

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